My new tattoo! If y’all are wondering who “Leah” is, she’s my overly attached cat.
Anonymous said: So I've been dating my bestfriend for 3 whole months! Everything was great before dating but now he calls me a slut, cunt, bitch, whore and brings up things from the past and says I will never be able change I'll be a little cheating whore for the rest of my life. The last time this happened was lastnight. This was the first time I actually sobbed in front of him and he said sorry he blacked out and he can't control it. I don't want to lose my bestfriend. Help?
I don’t give a flying fuck if he was drunk, possessed by demons or speaking in tongues. Anyone who calls you names like that is an abusive piece of shit who doesn’t deserve your friendship. Or your time. Or energy.
Nopeing hard on this douchecanoe right now. Those aren’t little faux pas either. “Sometimes you can be bitchy.” is one thing, “you’re a lying cunt” is designed, full sail, to be hurtful and to demean you. That is not okay. At all.
Here’s my advice: tell that dude to get to stepping. If he can’t figure out how to communication his frustration or fears with you in a way that is productive and not hurtful, he needs to spend a good long while by himself figuring out how to be a decent human being.
The “I can’t control it” line is 100% bullshit. If he can’t control himself from saying abusive shit while he’s drunk, then he should recognize that he’s an out of control drunk and needs to stop drinking. Just because he has a problem doesn’t mean you need to just grin and bear it.
Nope. Nope. Nope. Not cool, bro.
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I’m not asking you to do it for free. I’m asking you to do it for a friend.
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